Oh and don’t let anyone ever make you feel like being confident in yourself is a problem. Don’t ever let anyone make you feel like you don’t deserve to be treated the way that you want to be treated. Don’t stay with someone who lies to you, does not chase after you when you walk away and just so clearly does not appreciate you because that just means that they don’t deserve your greatness and you deserve much better.
You know what the worst kind of break up is? When the person is bitter and spiteful towards it when they have no reason to be. When the person tries to hurt you more and more than you are already hurting. The person that continues to do things that make the entire relationship look like a lie. Don’t ever do that to someone that you ever claimed to love. Don’t ever try to take away from what you two had because then they will never miss you, they will never see the relationship the way that you want them to see it and they won’t want you back. They won’t even be able to look back at you in a few years and smile because you took away everything that you ever had.
“Life is all a matter of choosing which voices to tune in and which to tune out, a lesson I learned long before most people, but one that took me longer than most to put to good use.”—The Tender Bar, J.R. Moehringer
It’s good to know that one day I’ll find someone who will love me for all of me. Someone who will treat me the way I deserve to be treated. Be there for me and work with me through everything. Someone who will make me so happy that I won’t even remember your name.
You know you can’t give me what I need and even though you mean so much to me I can’t wait through everything. Is this really happening? I swear I’ll never be happy again and don’t you dare say we can just be friends.